Russian Women Advice

Though it may not always be easy to find, Russian women advice for your specific situation is almost surely available within the many pages of this site, but maybe you'd like it in a little more of a "custom fit" and not so scattered around.
  • Are you just starting to investigate the possibility of seeking a Russian woman and just don't even know where to start?

  • Do you feel that your specific situation is especially complicated and beyond the scope of generic one-size-fits-all Russian women advice?

  • Are you planning a trip to Russia/Ukraine and want a little personalized guidance?

  • Have you been writing a Russian woman and are ready to start planning a trip, but want to know how to do it in a way that doesn't leave you stranded or scammed?
If so, I offer two options for receiving more specific Russian woman advice that you may use.

Personal Consultation

I offer fee-based Russian women advice phone consultations. Basically it works like this... We agree on an appointment time, you pay via PayPal prior to that appointment time, and I will call you at the appointment time and talk about whatever you want to talk about and offer whatever feedback I can.

Please read my Consultation Policies for instructions for scheduling an appointment and to better understand exactly what to expect.

Post Your Question Below

If you prefer a more economical route to having questions answered about your specific situation, you can POST your question/situation here with as much detail as you like and I'll offer my best Russian women advice on the matter. You will be able to respond to my comments such that it is much like a conversation, but it will not be "private". Others will be able to benefit from the information.

I realize that seeking this kind of advice in such a public forum has a potential downside of sacrificing your privacy, however, you may protect your privacy by simply submitting a fake name and location and withholding or changing any details that may identify you or your situation. Let's face it, your woman's name is probably Natalia, Elena, Julia, Anna, Tatiana, Irina, or Svetlana, right? That doesn't really narrow it down such that anyone is going to know who you are talking about ;-)

In other words, if you are John from Tampa, you can submit your question as Steve from Houston Texas, and if the girl in whom you are interested is Irina from Odessa Ukraine, you can instead describe her as Natalia from Kiev Ukraine (there are probably at least 5000 girls named Natalia in Kiev Ukraine - NOT EXAGGERATING). Not even your own mother would recognize the description. You get the idea. No one will know!

IMPORTANT: Please DO NOT post any questions about scams here. If your need for advice is in any way related to scams, please visit Russian Scams Q & A.

Do YOU have a situation you would like to ask about?

If you have a question about your search for a Russian woman, please enter the details here (feel free to alter a few details to maintain your privacy if you wish) and I will give my best answer!

A Few Guidelines/Notes:

  • Your post must be approved by a moderator before it appears on the site, so it won't appear immediately (so no need to post twice).
  • You do not need to sign up for anything or create an account or in order to ask a question. You will only need to supply your email address if you want to be notified when answers and/or comments are posted regarding your question, and this will not result in you being added to any distribution list.
  • If you prefer to remain anonymous, enter a fake first name and location. Please DO NOT enter a last name - it appears on the public post.
  • We aren't the grammar police and we're not looking for perfection, but please make an effort to make posts readable (periods, commas, capital letters where appropriate, etc.). If this seems a little picky you should see what we see!

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