Is she real, sincere and honest?

by Nick
(Phoenix, AZ)

Please always enter a first name and location when posting. It DOES NOT have to be accurate. It just reads more naturally. So from now on, you are "Nick" from "Phoenix AZ" - I'm pulling that out of thin air - my apologies if it is actually true!

Is she real, sincere and honest? I have been corresponding with a Ukrainian woman until few days ago through personal email.

It all started at Russian-Dating.com.

She has sent me over 40 pictures of herself and her family in the period of one month. She says she's deeply in love with me.

When I asked her for her phone number and home address, she gave it to me. I called her and spoke to her 5 times to make sure she's real. But when she asked me to pay for her expense to come to the US for a week and to be together, I did not pay.

I asked her over the phone if this is a "scam", she responded telling about how her family values and morals and she's not scamming me. All she wanted is to be with a "real man" to start a family. She's worried that she may not have the opportunity because she's almost 30 years old. She asked me again to pay for her visa and the round trip ticket, but when I said I won't and that true love needs more time and that I am planning on visiting her some time in October of this year, she said she could not wait and it's better if we meet in the US.

When I still would not pay. She decided to end our one month "relationship." Is she real, sincere and honest?