by Miguel
(Grand Junction, Colorado)
So here goes... I'm gay! Do you know anything about meeting Ukrainian or Russian men? I have talked to a few guys online. Are my challenges similar to the straight men looking for love?
Bob's Answer:
Let me give my most confident answer first: I really don't know.
But I'll "think out loud" a bit and see if it helps...
An American woman friend once asked me if it was just as promising for American WOMEN to find a Russian/Ukrainian man. I know that's not exactly the same question as yours, but my answer to her was definitely "NO".
And the reason for that immediate "NO" was that Russia/Ukraine has a bit of an oversupply of women and an under supply of men. That factor, in turn, tends to make the men there a little spoiled. MANY of them drink a LOT, and MANY of them are unfaithful to their wives. And the opposite is true for the women: They tend to be - ON AVERAGE - less spoiled than they might be in a culture with ratios more in their favor.
So the very reason that it is good for a man to seek a woman there is the very same reason it would be bad for a woman to seek a man there.
That's obviously not at all a one-to-one correlation to your situation because I would not think that the whole under supply/oversupply dynamic would matter in same-sex relationships.
Gosh, as I read that I see it may not have been that helpful.
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